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Published on:

22nd Apr 2024

Series 3 Is Coming!

Gloriously Unready is back for another series. And in series 3 Josephine is giving people a voice to express their love for their transgender children and transgender partners.

During the recording of this series, transgender issues have never been far away from the news. 

Sadly, identity politics are being used as a political football with no real consideration of the impact on transgender people and their families.

Yet the podcast cannot exist in isolation from the political situation and all the guests describe how they are affected.

What we hope from this podcast series is to share that transgender people and their families are just human, just like the rest of us, and worthy of love and support. 



Transcript
Josephine:

Hi, I'm Josephine Hughes. I'm the mother of two transgender daughters who came out in their teens and early twenties.

In gloriously unready series three I want to give people a voice to express their love for their transgender children and their transgender partners.

Moya:

You know, it was a really difficult conversation. But it was difficult because it was a big life change, not because I wasn't going to accept it. I love her. And when you nearly lose somebody, it makes you really appreciate how precious they are.

Marie Manley:

We did the census, didn't we, a little while ago. And that sort of. I hovered over that and thought, what am I? You know, who am I? And that was really difficult. And in the end, I ticked bisexual because I loved my husband and now I love Joanne. So that's where I ended up.

Dr Lulu:

You know, the fact that my kid is alive today is a miracle because I was the worst parent you can imagine. But now I know, looking back, it was all from a place of fear.

Helen McCarthy:

My child was called Rosie, and they wanted to be a boy. We talked about it and why and had great discussions with a three year old.

You can't imagine it.

And they used to pretend to have, like, gonads or whatever, you know, when they were playing football, and they would go, oh, like, I've just been hit like the boys, helpless.

Anna Hayward:

I became increasingly aware that there was a huge overlap between autism and trans and non binary identity. So if I talk about my son, he's quite significantly autistic. He has complex needs. From very, very early on, he didn't conform to gender stereotypes at all.

Josephine:

Transgender issues have never been far away from the news. Sadly, identity politics are being used as a political football.

Anon:

The news is blanket trans hostile, I would say, mainly because they know that it gives them revenue and it creates outrage and therefore it creates clicks, and it's a money making exercise.

Josephine:

What I hope from this podcast series is to share that transgender people and their families are just human, just like the rest of us, and worthy of love and support.

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About the Podcast

Gloriously Unready
It’s said that the only constant in life is change. But humans like routine, it helps them to feel safe and in control. Change can be difficult to navigate – whether it’s welcome or not.

So Gloriously Unready is all about change: how to make the most of life and the surprises it deals to us.

In Series 1 Josephine shared her story of becoming a mum to two transgender daughters.
In Series 2 she's finding out more about transgender people's experiences because as she adapted to having transgender daughters it helped her to get to know transgender people.

IMPORTANT NOTE: Everybody mentioned in this podcast series has agreed for their story to be told. We are keeping the names of Josephine's children private.

About your hosts

Josephine Hughes

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Josephine is a BACP Accredited Counsellor and Mentor who helps other counsellors find clients. With a deep ineptitude for anything technical, Josephine is testament to the power of marketing being first and foremost about relationships - having built an active and engaged Facebook group of over 10,000 counsellors. In her Facebook group and podcast, Good Enough Counsellors is a phrase that resonates with many therapists and Josephine is on a mission to help therapists overcome their self-doubt and make a difference to their clients' lives.

Josephine's other passion is in advocating for transgender people and their families. Initially thinking she had a family of 3 boys, she lost two sons and gained two daughters when they came out as transgender in their teens and early 20's. Her podcast Gloriously Unready was named a "Best Podcast of the Week" in the Guardian who said:

"Hughes is brutally honest and endlessly wise as she tells their story, outlining the moments that many parents face with so much love and support she can't fail to help others".

Josephine lives in Essex with her husband Tim, a programmer who despite having a brain the size of a planet, still has to issue instructions like "Alt-Tab" at regular intervals.